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\u201cWe are like stones joined in an arch, bound to collapse\u2026 unless we support one another.\u201d Leo Tolstoi
\n
\nNow that many children received gifts from Santa, some expected some not; I notice the main
\nconcern of parents calling me for advise refer to their child\u2019s bitterness and ungratefulness.
\nIn other cases, it is the sibling rivalry that has emotions at an all time high when you had hoped for holiday contentment.<\/span><\/p>\n

Let\u2019s demonstrate how we can support each other, starting at home. The remedy I recommend for a child\u2019s self-centeredness is to interrupt their misbehavior by asking your child
\nquestions that activate and cultivate an educated heart. I use in my work the term the \u201ceducated heart\u201d as message to foster compassionate action in young people because it is not enough to have intelligent minds, we must also have a pure heart. A pure heart lacks aggressiveness.<\/p>\n

In our daily lives we have opportunities to model cooperation and peacemaking rather than
\ncompetition and jealousy. Here\u2019s how. Next time you catch wind of your children fighting\u2014
\ninstead of ignoring it to let them work it out, you need to step in and step up into your parental power. A child is not necessary going to learn peacemaking without our input and guidance.
\nBut even the well-meaning parents tell me they do not feel equipped to handle conflict resolution because they were not given strategies in their upbringing.<\/p>\n

I realize this more true than ever. If our children are going to have emotional intelligence, we
\nadults are to be responsible for modeling these skills. So when I suggest we interrupt the misbehavior, instead of letting it go; what I mean is, you have to keep your calm and not get caught in the cross-fire or show favor. Here\u2019s a powerful question to ask your children: \u201cWhat are you not bringing to this situation? Is it patience, a moment to consider another point of view?\u201d<\/p>\n

When I ask: \u201cWhat are you not bringing to this relationship to make it work?\u201d Most kids know the answer. Taking time to pause and reflect offers your child a chance to act mindfully, rather than act out.<\/p>\n

Here\u2019s another strategy: ask your child to see the goodness in others and see the goodness in themselves. Try it and see what happens.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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